Living examples

Saw this mail in my inbox today; thought it’s worth sharing <thanks Siew Bee!> LONGEST MARRIED COUPLE (85 YEARS!)…GIVES RELATIONSHIP ADVICE  Meet Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher of North Carolina . They have been married 85 years (86 in May) and hold the Guinness World Record for the longest marriage of a living couple and get [...]

A week of bujang-ness

So, after 3 years of being married and having a super-efficient wife who’s absolutely superb at home-management, I have officially endured 1 week without her. First, being bujang (single; bujang is a local Malaysian term) now and bujang then are two totally different scenarios. Bujang then (student days) meant you had plenty of time, but you [...]

Do you speaketh my language?

You know it. You’ve been there. You wonder why there’s no pleasing this woman!! <and then you both argue and the neighbors listen > I recall  a seminar that I attended in church; they were speaking about the 5 love languages byDr Gary Chapman. In a quick summary, basically you and I have different ways [...]

When 2 become 1

And suddenly I find myself writing 2 posts on marriages today. I saw this article which my godmother sent to me and I thought it is worthwhile to share it with all netizens. It talks about “finding” true love… and sustaining it. Hope you will enjoy this article, and may it open the eyes of [...]

10 Commandments of Marriage

Saw this junk mail today, which I thought was i) so widely circulated it must have been on the moon and back and ii) offers a somewhat overall picture of marriage. Marriages are made in heaven. But so are thunder and lightning.  If you want your wife to listen and pay strict attention to every [...]